Dahej Apradh

Dahej ek Apradh :-Aaj Bharatvarsh me Dahej ki samasya  din pratidin badti ja rahi hai aur samanyta ek vikral roop leti jaa rahi hai.Aye din samachar, tv, radio, newspaper me Dahej ke karan nav vadhuyo par hone wale atyacharo ko dikhaya jata hai unke bare me bataya jaya jata hai unka jikra hota rahtahai.Dahej samanyta us dhanrasi ko kahte hai jo ek stri vivah ke samay apne pati ke liye lati hai.Dahej mukhyta vivah me shart ke taur par ladke pacch ladki pacch ke samne rakte hai.Jisko ladki pacch ko vivah ke samay,vivah ke pahle,ya vivah ke baad ladke pacch ko dena hota hai.Pahle Dahej keval uchi jatio me dekhne ko milta tha jaha ladka docter,engineer,ya phir goverment employee hota tha tab unke mata pita adhik se adhik Dahej ki mang karte the.kintu aaj Dahej  ek vikral samasya banti ja rahi hai jiska kuprabhav hame chotti jatiyo me bhi dekhne laga hai Aab to niche jati ke log bhi adhik se adhik Dahej ki mang karte dekha ja raha hai.Dahej  kam dene par nav vadhuyo ko apne sasural me koi ijjat,adar,samman nahi diya jata hai unko chhoti chhoti bato par tana diya jata hai kam dhaej lane par nav vadhuyo ko mara pita jata hai  tatha unpar anek atyachar kiye jate hai.Kahi kafi to Dahej ke lalchi kam dahej lane par apni nav vadhuyo ko jalakar mar dete hai anyatha kucch aisi paristhiti utpann kar dete hai ki nav vadho swyam atmhatya kar leti hai.Aisa nahi hai ki Dahej lene me keval ladka hi shamil rahta balki uske mata pita aur anya gharwale bhi dahej lene me shamil rahte hai.Dahej ke kucch nimnlikhit kuprabhav hai:-Dahej pratha ke karan anek parivar me dahej ki dhanrasi ko lekar mata-pita aur parivar ke sadasyo ke beech tanav ki sthiti utpann ho jati hai.                                                          Dahej kam milne par nav vadhuyo par anek atyachar kiya jata hai unhe mar pita jata hai unhe chhoti chhoti bato par tana diya jata hai jisse nav vadhuyo ke man me hinta ki bhavna utpann ho jati hai aur we atmhatya kar leti hai.        kahi kahi to kam Dahej isliye mata pita apni yogya aur shushil ladki ka vivah luke,langde,kurup,vyakti se kar dete hai aise bemel vivah jyada din tak tik nahi pate hai.                   kahi kahi to mata pita ko apne ajivika ka bada hissa beti ko vivah me Dahej dene ke liye vatorna padta hai jisse swat hi parivar stiti nimn ho jati hai.                                                                        kahi kahi to maa baap ko apni beti ke vivah me Dahej dene ke liye karz lena padta hai jisse parivar karjdar ho jata hai samay se paise na de pane samaj ninda ke dar se ma  baap atmhatya kar lete hai.Is prakar ham log dekh sakte hai ki dahej ke kitne kuprabhav hai.Aaiye ham milkar ye pran lete hai ki dahej dene aur lene walo ko kadi se kadi saja dilayenge.Aur ham kabhi bhi na dahej lenge aur naa denge aur apne desh,apne samaj ko dahej mukt banayenge.                                   Mai bharat sarkar se ye vinti karta hoon ki hamare desh me dahej lena aur dene par puri tarike se bain kar diya jaye  aur dahej lene aur dene walo ko kadi se kadi saja di jaye.                                                                                             Published by Ashwani chaudhary